How to Uncover Your Style
"I don't know what I like, but I know what I DON'T like!" This is one of the most common things I hear when we first meet with clients to start the design process. This is actually not a problem and can really help refine your personal style. Knowing what you don't like narrows things down considerably. By whittling away the things you hate or just feel indifferent about, you will be left with a concise aesthetic that really feels like "you".
Where to start:
Not on the internet! Think about your friends and neighbors homes, local shops and restaurants. Take a stroll through Wayne or Bryn Mawr. Pop into different places. Which ones make you feel good when you are in those spaces? Do you notice any common themes? Alternately, make a list of places you can't stand and why you think they make you feel that way.
When you imagine these places, notice what makes you feel good or bad about them. Are they maximalist or minimalist? Do they feel organized or organic? Are there bold colors or neutrals? Are they cluttered?
Think about your wardrobe and style icons you respect. I know this sounds crazy but stay with me. Do you like simple, staple items with some accessories for interest? Do you love seeing patterns mixed in the same outfit, like a striped shirt and a patterned scarf? What about color? Is your closet filled with grey, navy, cream and camel or lots of bright, varied colors?
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Consider brands that catch your eye (doesn't have to be a furniture brand). Do you find yourself attracted to brands that are trendy or classic? Cutting edge or traditional and familiar? I believe we are always seeking tangible things that are a reflection of our inner world. Thinking about what brands you viscerally respond to will give you a cue about what design style will be affirming to you and not stressful.
Stay away from trends. Instagram, Houzz, and Pinterest will show you what the masses are looking at and whatever is trending now. It will literally wire your brain to think that is what you want because it is repetitively presented to you. Furniture catalogs will do the same thing. Restoration Hardware is famous for its monolithic 'aesthetic' and you will be bombarded with advertising showcasing it. But in 3-4 years they will overhaul the entire thing and the cycle will start again. Meanwhile, you may have invested thousands of dollars, only to feel you missed the boat when the next trend comes along.
Remember your childhood spaces. Which one made you feel the most safe and loved? It might be your childhood home. Maybe it was your grandmother's house or your best friend's-wherever you felt the most nurtured. What did this space look like? Whether it was a big rambling, eclectic home, a place with tons of plants, a stylish mid century building; you will undoubtedly feel good if you recreate some of the aspects of this childhood space.
Ok, you've finished brainstorming! Now what? There are basically three styles, with some exceptions. Modern, Transitional and Traditional. Which one fits in best with your lifestyle and taste?
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Finally, go to Houzz, Pinterest and Google images. Use some keywords based on the research you've completed above. Start to curate some images that really resonate with you. Notice common themes, like color, scale, tonality. A picture will emerge of what elements your spaces need to make you feel most alive, connected and rejuvenated.
Our homes tell a story-of who we were, are and aspire to be. We love to be a part of our clients’ journey to discover themselves through interior design, and help them create spaces that truly reflect who they are. Surround yourself with the kind of beauty that calms your mind and makes your heart sing!